Couples Only: Why Complaining Kills A relationship

Everyone complains about things they don't like, unfavorable situations and other inconveniences that arise every now and then. For couples, complaining kills your relationship. 

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According to relationship coach, Owen Williams, the more one partner complains, the more the other partner feels pushed away, then shuts down and withdraws. This attitude applies to both sexes.

To find a solution to complaining, instead of talking about what isn’t working emphasize on what works. Whenever you find yourself about to complain, talk about what you’d like to be done rather than what you don’t like.